| Theory | Practice |
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Approach
| SKILLS | supported by | FORMS |
| FUTURE | as well as | PAST |
| COLLABORATIVE | rather than | ADVERSARIAL |
| DEVELOPMENTAL | rather than only | JUDGEMENTAL |
| THEORY Y | rather than | THEORY X |
| Theory X | Theory Y |
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Structure
- Clarify purpose
- Establish rapport
- Give positive feedback early
- Understand past before planning future
- Recap key points
- Summarise and agree understanding
Building rapport
- Location
- Room layout
- Pace
- Body language
Listening
- Do your preparation
- Avoid interruptions and disttractions
- Allow time to relax
- Maintain eye contact
- Ask one question at a time – make it easy on both of you
- Be prepared to sit out silences
- Beware of filtering out bad news
- Take appropriate notes
Questions to avoid
| CLOSED (except to clarify facts) | “Is everything OK then?” Beware the closed question trap – they only provide yes/no answers |
| LEADING | “I enjoyed that project – I presume you did too?” Gives the employee the answer you want – don’t waste your time asking it! |
| MULTIPLE | “Did you achieve that task on time or were the resources not available and what about total costs?” Where do I start? These questions only serve to confuse. |
The questioning funnel
- Open
- Probe
- Close
- Recap
Giving praise
- A motivational tool
- More powerful when specific – examples give credibility
- Give some praise early
- Sincerity is important
- Don’t underestimate the contribution of longer serving staff
Catch them doing something right
Dealing with substandard performance
- Find simple factual reasons
eg: Disorganised? Not trained? Wrong priorities? Inexperience? - Tackle it in terms of control rather than blame
Improving performance and solving problems
| CONTROL | INFLUENCE | CAN’T AFFECT | |
|---|---|---|---|
| APPRAISEE | |||
| BOTH | |||
| APPRAISER |
“How do we solve it?” NOT “Whose fault is it?”
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Source: Simon Parker, CPCR.
